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The Last Chance

06 Sunday Dec 2015

Posted by dianasschwenk in Diana's Enormous Book of Quotes, In My Opinion

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200 words, change, choice, Diana Schwenk, Diana's Enormous Book of Quotes, Do the right thing, forgiveness, learning, lessons, life, Life's like that, living in the moment, mistakes, second chance, wrong

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We never really learn from the first mistake or the second or third. It only hits us when we’re given the last chance. ~ unattributed

I’d like to think that I when I make a mistake, I recognize I’ve done so right away and at the very least, I do not repeat it ever again.

But is that what really happens? For me? You?

When the above quote appeared on my twitter feed, it stopped me in my tracks.

I can think of specific examples when I said or did something, and immediately I’d wished I hadn’t done it. I tell myself I will never do that again and before I know it, I find myself in a similar situation and I DO IT AGAIN!

What is wrong with me?!

It’s as if I’m programmed to do it. Usually it takes several instances before I can commit fully to I-will-never-do-that-again.

Then there are those times when I am not aware that what I am doing is a mistake, or not the best choice I can make until I’m given one last chance or it’s just too late. period.

~ DIANA’S ENORMOUS BOOK OF QUOTES ~

Can you relate? What has your experience been?

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Re-inventing yourself

31 Wednesday Oct 2012

Posted by dianasschwenk in Hump Day Chronicles, In My Opinion, My Stories, Out and About

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Calgary, candy, community, growing up, Halloween, re-invent yourself, second chance, start from scratch, Zombie Walk

Happy Halloween!

Although I’m way past dressing up these days, Halloween brings back many fond childhood memories that mostly ended with mountains of chocolate, chips and candy.

I can understand the appeal of Halloween. I mean you can totally re-invent yourself – if only for a day.

You’ve always wanted to be a sexy movie star?

Well dress up as Marilyn Munroe!

Or maybe you wish you’d been a cop.

There’s a costume store out there somewhere with a uniform for you!

Wondering what it’s like to be a rock star?

Well today’s your day – rock on!

On the subject of re-inventing yourself, check out the pictures I took just 18 days ago during our annual Zombie Walk.

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Calgary has re-invented itself since that day too. I’m now living in a Winter Wonderland!

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Although it is true that I’m way past dressing up, I’m still a big fan of re-inventing one’s self.

Every now and then, one gets the chance to re-invent themselves for good. I’m one of those lucky ones.

When I first moved out west, it was a second chance for me – an opportunity to totally re-invent myself.

No one knew me in BC. No one had any preconceived ideas about me.

You see, I didn’t make very good choices as a younger person.

I got caught up in some questionable and even dangerous situations.

I did some things that I’m not very proud of.

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Still, looking back, I’m not sure that I’d change anything because those experiences are a big part of what’s made me who I am today.

Moving out west gave me a ‘Do Over.’ It gave me a blank slate, a start-from-scratch new life.

Every day I am grateful for that.

And for the people who saw something good in me and believed in me.

Maybe that’s why it’s so important to me to make a difference.

Maybe that’s why I want others to get a second chance, a life make-over, if you will.

I am very fortunate to have had the chance to re-invent myself – given a chance to be authentically me

to reflect on the outside who I truly am on the inside

without the pressure of living up to some image I had created.

Authentically is how I choose to live my life now

with peace in my heart…

a clear conscience…

and a desire to build healthy community…

to facilitate an environment where others get a second chance to discover who they truly are

and gain the respect of their peers, while contributing to society in their corner of the world.

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I believe in second chances because it made a difference in my life and and in the lives of others.

Have you ever wanted to re-invent yourself?

Are you living authentically and being who you truly are?

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