Yesterday my good friend reminded me that every garden has weeds. In other words there are bad apples in every batch.
Yesterday, I went to my first Freedom Rally in Memorial Park, downtown Calgary in regards to Vaccine Mandates and Vaccine Exemptions. I went to see for myself what people were saying, what was motivating them and quite honestly, I wanted to see if they were extreme in their views. That last point is important to me because I struggle when people are polarized in their views, when a situation has only two possible solutions. When it’s either this or that. It’s so divisive. There’s got to be a better third option.
What I found when I went to the Rally, were good people with families in tow peacefully demonstrating and sharing their experiences. There were all kinds of people from different backgrounds there. They were smiling and dancing and friendly and motivated by a deep desire to stand up for the good of all of us. They made some very good points. They also made some points that seemed a stretch to me, maybe even unsubstantiated broad-stroked statements. But this is true of both sides of this issue. Every garden has weeds.

I started this pandemic journey getting doubly-vaccinated. I did this from a place of wanting to protect vulnerable populations. I have family and friends who have underlying conditions that make them more susceptible to bad outcomes if they contract this virus. This is a huge step for me in the sense that in pre-pandemic times I never got the flu shot. I’m healthy, I have what I believe to be a good immune system, I hardly ever get sick. So I really had to mull it over. But I feel good about my choice to do so. Many people made this choice. All kinds of people from different backgrounds, for different reasons and from a place of wanting to do good for everyone.
As the pandemic went on, I became frustrated that it didn’t seem to make a difference, even as we approached satisfactory levels of herd immunity. And the inconsistencies in mandates were so exasperating, i.e., this group needs to do this to stay safe, while this group can run around Willy Nilly just didn’t make sense to me. And then airports – people coming and going from places that were nowhere near achieving herd immunity because, in my view, the vaccine formula was not freely shared with these countries. If science was truly to be accepted why didn’t we act like it? Honestly it feels like it’s about money. It’s about politics. It’s about greed and not about the common good of everyone.
Yes, I hate polarization. Perhaps that is a flaw in my belief system. And perhaps I even unwittingly participate in polarization. But just as I grow as a person and hopefully become a better version of myself, perhaps any great thing that humanity has ever achieved starts out with polarized views which result in one-sided truths. Maybe this is the process it takes before we become open to hear the other side and hopefully come to a place of understanding, not through government, not through corporations, but through the masses as we choose to not see each other as the enemy and work together to break through ‘it’s either this or that’ thinking to get to the better third option.
What do you think?
Hi Diana:
Well, covid is not entirely over. I”m a different place…all my siblings work full-time in Toronto hospitals. So there is elevated awareness of covid and precautions. I do not support the protests in front of hospitals. It is wrong…after all, it is the doctors, nurses who are working to save people, of which some are not vaccinated (enough) or at all.
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Diana, first, where have you been? I’ve missed you. So glad you’re back.
Your eye – witness account is of more credible value than any media outlet which has a bias. Believe nothing of what you hear, half of what you read and all of what you see with your own eyes.
This pandemic is a crisis that politicians can’t pass up to use as a club against their opponents. You can tell the culprits by their behavior and stances when the position taken loses its value that position is soon changed. They are political weather vanes. The common sense that sees the truth for what it is through observation as this virus did its thing completely eludes the side that so wanted this thing to go on for the sake of an upcoming election which under that circumstance is more easily manipulated. That illogical behavior has destined them to an upcoming massive defeat since it has become obvious to more and more citizens that it has been all about power and how to maintain it. And a loathsome desire to control the masses. How foolish it is that these politicians could believe that free people would willingly turn over that freedom to fear.
-Alan
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot as well. I do understand there are inconsistencies and gaps in all these rules. I’ve listened to extended family who have objections to vaccines or the mandates and a lot of what they say sounds reasonable, but there are also claims that make giant leaps in logic or counter overwhelming science with an emotional, anecdotal story. I don’t think the actual arguments matter as much as the us versus them and really grasping at anything that supports the team you’re rooting for.
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Thanks for chiming in!
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I agree Diana — the polarization is creating Us and Them/Us versus Them / Us or Them segregation and disparity.
And… like you — it’ snot about the vaccine – it’s about the patents which allow ‘the haves’ to dictate what/how/when/if ‘have nots’ have access to the one tool that would have dissipated the virus’ capacity to continue to run rampant around the world and morph and evolve with every infected person.
thanks my friend for speaking calmly amidst all the confusion.
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Thanks so much Louise!
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This bloody pandemic makes many of us think and question stuff
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Well the messaging has been confusing, hasn’t it?
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Welcome back, Lady Di! Long time no blog. Hope all is well and fine with you and yours!
I’m doubly with ya on this. I dislike the polarization (nothing is black and white) and I never bothered with flu shots, either, but didn’t hesitate to get vaccinated for this, it’s too serious. We’re approaching one-million deaths.
As to why people don’t follow the science, it’s part of the growing disdain culture has for experts and science. Not that we ever really let science be our principle guiding star, but it seems to me we did used to have a bit more respect for it.
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Smittey! Hiiiiiiiiiiiii thanks for chiming in! All is well here. Hope you’re keeping well too. The whole science thing could be discussed forever. I don’t think it is the science that drives me crazy. It’s the mixed messages and the inconsistencies in how it was applied. I think this happens because of patents and greed. Every human who wanted a vaccine should have had access whether they had money or not. And the formula should have been widely and freely shared. But that’s just my 2 cents. You take care now Smittey. I wish you the best of everything in 2022!
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You, too, Lady Di! Stay happy, healthy, and sane!
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Thank you Smittey 🙏🏻
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Well said Diana. I agree with you.
Blessings Cristl Porter Cochair Congregational Care Team Central United Church
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Thank you Cristl!
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