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By becoming the answer to someone’s prayer, we often find the answers to our own. ~ unattributed
MOST OF US KNOW that if you want to achieve a certain outcome, you must develop strategies to get you there.
For example, if you want people to attend an event, you might send out invitations. To increase your success in getting actual bodies to your event, you may further decide to invite those who are most likely to attend your event.
The above quote seems counterintuitive in comparison. But is it any less effective?
Whether you believe that you reap what you sow, or to keep a gift you have to give it away, or that Karma lurks around the corner; you may have experienced this concept to be true.
25 years ago, I was at a crossroad in my life. I felt alone and broken. Looking back, the best decision I made, was to volunteer with an organization that looked after some of the most vulnerable people in our society.
By walking with people through their brokenness and loneliness and believing in them until they believed in themselves, I unwittingly brought peace and purpose into my own life.
~ DIANA’S ENORMOUS BOOK OF QUOTES ~
Minuscule Moments said:
Beautiful post Diana I always tell my kids when they are feeling sad about something to go and help someone else to take their minds off their own worries. I bet the people that you helped will always remember you.
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks Kath, I certainly always remember those who have helped me. ❤
Diana xo
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Sheryl said:
Both the unattributed quote at the beginning of this post, and your quote at the end are so thoughtful and insightful.
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dianasschwenk said:
Wow, thank you Sheryl. ❤
Diana xo
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joannerambling said:
So true
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dianasschwenk said:
And something you do often Jo-Anne! ❤
Diana xo
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Val Boyko said:
Beautiful and wise.
As are you.
xo
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks so much Val. Means a lot coming from you. ❤
Diana xo
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Alan A. Malizia: Contagious Optimism! Co-Author said:
In helping to heal another we help to heal ourselves.
-Alan
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dianasschwenk said:
Yes! Thank you Alan. ❤
Diana xo
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Wyrd Smythe said:
“By walking with people through their brokenness and loneliness and believing in them until they believed in themselves, I unwittingly brought peace and purpose into my own life.”
Firstly, brava; and secondly, that’s not an uncommon experience. Studies have shown that those who help others often have a greater sense of self-worth and happiness. It’s very clear in your case!
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks Smitty! ❤
Diana xo
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Wyrd Smythe said:
Nolo Problemo! 😀
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Nurse Kelly said:
What a beautiful post, Diana. Thank you! Glad I read it on a Monday 🙂
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dianasschwenk said:
So happy you enjoyed it Kelly. ❤
Diana xo
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Jim McKeever said:
Amen to that!
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks Jim! ❤
Diana xo
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elizabeth2560 said:
You are wonderful Diana and you inspire me!
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dianasschwenk said:
Thank you Elizabeth. As are you. ❤
Diana xo
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Chatter Master said:
Beautiful Diana. I believe I understand. I have never done a kindness, or something to help others, and felt bad about it.
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dianasschwenk said:
Me neither Colleen! ❤
Diana xo
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Wendy L. Macdonald said:
Beautiful, Diana.
Blessings & hugs ~ Wendy
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks Wendy, back at ya! ❤
Diana xo
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Don Royster said:
I like the way the Buddhist think. By giving to another, we are giving to ourselves. So hard to contemplate, yet so deeply necessary.
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks Don. When one suffers, we all suffer. When one rejoices, we all rejoice. That kind of thing? ❤
Diana xo
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Jennifer's Journal said:
Peace and purpose, I think, might be what life is all about.
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dianasschwenk said:
Yes Jennifer and LOVE! ❤
Diana xo
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Jennifer's Journal said:
How could I forget? Of course! 😍💕
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dianasschwenk said:
forget Jennifer? Maybe in thought, but never in deed, I’m sure. 🙂
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earthriderjudyberman said:
Diana … You have created a great legacy. You have made a difference. I recall that feeling when I volunteered delivering Meals on Wheels one summer, working in a reading program with students whose families were migrant workers. I know that’s something I want to return to …
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dianasschwenk said:
Do it Judy! ❤
Diana xo
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russtowne said:
I love this post, and especially the last sentence, Diana!
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dianasschwenk said:
Thank you so much Russ. I know you know exactly what I mean. ❤
Diana xo
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Denise Hisey said:
Beautifully said, Diana. This concept, like so many others I discovered in my recovery, is very counter intuitive. – as you say. It is incredibly true, though.
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dianasschwenk said:
Thanks for chiming in Denise, thanks for sharing your own experience. ❤
Diana xo
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Ann Koplow said:
Wonderful post, Diana! ❤ ❤
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dianasschwenk said:
Thank you Ann! ❤
Diana xo
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vanbytheriver said:
Such a wonderful spirit in this thought, Diana. To reach out to others in need, especially when you are hurting, is so fulfilling. Karma, indeed. 💕
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dianasschwenk said:
That has also been my experience Van. ❤
Diana xo
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Healing Grief said:
I love the quote and the post Diana. This has definitely helped me in my life too, even though this is the last thing we feel like doing when we feel lost and lonely. Wonderful wisdom. 🙂
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dianasschwenk said:
Thank you Karen. Many a time I have forced myself to do this and I never regret it. xoxo
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