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Be someone who makes someone else look forward to tomorrow. ~ Unattributed
Do you know someone who makes you feel like you’re the only other person in the room?
At that very moment you are the most important person in the world?
I’ve been blessed to know a few people like this.
Once, some twenty years ago, I met a couple in their late 50s/early 60s who came to the office I was working at to chat with my boss; a long-time friend of theirs.
During their visit, I was introduced to them. I immediately felt loved by them. We chatted, and when they left, I was sad to see them go.
When they were gone, their aura of warmth lingered and I hoped I would have opportunity to see them again. Later that day, and much to my glee, I noticed that the man had left his wallet on my desk.
I picked up the phone to call and let them know, I could not contain my joy – I would see them again!
I want to be like that for someone
~ DIANA’S ENORMOUS BOOK OF QUOTES ~
Have you ever met and liked someone immediately? Who was it?
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There have been people I’ve instantly warmed to, Diana. We are friends to this day.
Like you, I hope that I’m like that for someone as well. ❤
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I have no doubt that you are Judy. ❤
Diana xo
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Thanks, Diana. ❤
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🙂 !
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That’s so sweet! Did you keep in touch after that?
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Yes, the gentleman has since passed away. I met their daughter at his funeral and she’s just as amazing – we are dancing buddies. Her brothers and sisters are awesome too and the mom – she’s the coolest person ever Rachel! ❤
Diana xo
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Diana, I agree this is rare. A couple of my lifelong friends are so good at this that my children love them too. An article I read suggested that when we listen to someone we should pretend we’re going on a journey we’ve never been on before and give the one talking our full attention, as well as leaving pauses for the speaker to gather their thoughts and perhaps go on to say something unexpected and profound. I needed this reminder. ❤
Blessings & hugs ~ Wendy ❀
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Oh I love that tip Wendy – thank you! ❤
Diana xo
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It is funny how it goes with some people you meet it is like that. It is really good and I love that!
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Me too Ute! ❤
Diana xo
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Diana I had a neighbour who was in her seventies. If you went over for a cup of tea it would be hours before you returned. Stories, many laughs and the best home made sponge cake was usually the order of the day. She is gone now but when I remember the joy of Ollie I remind myself that she always had visitors because she made every one of us feel so special and most of all we always had a laugh. I hope I can do that too.
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Ollie sounds like a peach of a gal Kath. You must miss her – sorry for your loss.
I love that even in her 70s she made such a difference in this world. Like you, I hope I can do that too. Something to look forward to in the golden years… ❤
Diana xo
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People are our reflection …. it is your heart that radiates Diana ❤️
xo
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What a sweet thing to say Val! ❤
Diana xo
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I’ve met some people like that. And some have become long-time friends. It is a treat to be in their presence.
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I know what you mean Jean! ❤
Diana xo
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It is a wonderful experience to have. I remember some beautiful people after Nathan died. Sometimes its just a hug or a kind word. You never forget. 🙂 Thanks Diana, hope you had a lovely Mother’s Day.
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Karen, so glad that you had ‘angels’ in your life when you lost Nathan. Hugs for you! ❤
Diana xo
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Having people like that in our lives makes life easier. I am lucky to have a number of people like that, who share my ups and down, and who are there for me on the best and worst of days.
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I’m so happy for you Tric – humans truly need each other. ❤
Diana xo
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I guess the only person who I met and knew I wanted to see again and get to know better was Tim
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I knew you were going to say that Jo-Anne! I’m glad you both have each other. ❤
Diana xo
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I get very excited when I click with somebody, Diana. You just know, just as you explained with this couple. Once in a while …
I imagine you are that person to some folks in your life, Diana. ❤
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I sure hope so Mark. I am sure you are as well! ❤
Diana xo
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I LOVE when that happens, Diana. Hardly an event that comes up often for me, but when it does, wow. The last time it happened for me was when I met a woman in our community who sparked that special chemistry and ultimately became a close friend.
I just read your comment on another blog that you have a new job. Congrats! And Happy Mother’s Day! ❤
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Thanks Jennifer and Happy Mother’s Day to you too! How’s the book coming? Is it in print yet? ❤
Diana xo
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No, Diana, it’s in the editor’s hands right now, and that’s only the first step. It will be 2016 before it gets to print, most likely. 😌
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That will be so exciting Jennifer!
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Diana,
What a great experience. I believe we all have had at least one such encounter in our lives. Often they come when they are most needed. In my case, one such encounter was with my polio doctor. At the age of four and for years of nurturing by him afterwards. He always left me the belief that whatever I put my mind to I could accomplish.
We are all given an opportunity to be an angel to someone. All we need do is to behave like one; even if for only a moment. What a difference can be made in a life in need.
Especially on this special day, think of how many times that our mom, or mom, your child, has made you look forward to tomorrow. Even if just to share another day together.
Happy Mother’s Day, Diana.
-Alan
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So glad your doctor helped you to believe Alan. Thank you for the Mother’s Day wishes. ❤
Diana xo
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I have met people like that! And it is an incredible feeling Diana. I broke in to a smile when you got excited about being able to call them because you found their wallet. 🙂
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haha thanks Colleen, I was beside myself with JOY! ❤
Diana xo
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“Have you ever met and liked someone immediately?”
Honestly? No. And now I’ve been so disappointed and hurt by people so many times that I’m very slow to warm to anyone anymore.
Maybe the problem is I never met enough people like you. You’re rather a rare gem of a person, Lady Di.
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Aww thanks Smitty. I hate that you’ve been hurt so often. Here’s hoping you will meet someone like that! ❤
Diana xo
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there’s an energy we can catch from people like that Diana.
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There sure is Bill. 🙂 Something tells me there are probably a few folks in your life who would say you’re that type of person. ❤
Diana xo
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some of us look good on paper 🙂
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Love your modesty. 🙂
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naa.. just truthful, but thanks 🙂
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I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree 😉
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Yes. Yes. And more yes. I have felt that way, so very many times. It is the good part of moving around the country. You can’t take your friendships for granted, and you have to open up to the possibility of meeting those who touch your soul; sometimes even right away. It’s such a joy to connect with strangers in a way that makes you believe you were destined to cross paths, or have even known them before. We are all so much more alike than different ! Thanks, Diana. Sweet post. ❤ Van
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We are all so much more alike than different…if I had a buck for every time I’ve said that Van…
Thank you for your thoughtful and very beautiful comment. ❤
Diana xo
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You are such a beautiful heart.
Happy Mother’s Day Diana! ❤
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Thanks my friend! Happy Mother’s Day to you as well Louise! ❤
Diana xo
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