Don’t be a Fuddy Duddy

We don’t stop playing because we get old; we get old because we stop playing.

Growing up comes with its losses. Have you ever thought about the ‘magic’ we’ve given up to grow up?

There are so many things we must do as grown ups.

Work: The bills aren’t going to pay themselves.

Cook: Meals don’t magically appear on the table.

Clean: There is no Insta-wash button for our laundry, bathroom, dishes, windows, floors.

Yard work: The garden gnomes are not going to cut grass and water flowers.

Growing up pops its share of bubbles.

Reality crashes into our lives with all the grace and finesse of a stampede of buffalo.

Although I value my journey, I will not give up everything.

When I pass the park, I will swing on the swing or slide down the slide.

When I see a pop can on the sidewalk, I may kick the can all the way home before recycling it.

I will still make fun of you (lovingly), dance, sing and succumb to fits of laughter.

I may be getting older, but I’ll never grow up – at least not completely.

Don’t be a fuddy duddy – go out and play!

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42 thoughts on “Don’t be a Fuddy Duddy

    • Thanks, a good friend told me awhile back that she thought I looked sad in the other (I thought it was mysterious) but she said it didn’t seem to represent the person she knew me to be.

  1. You will never be too old to have some fun and I really don’t care what people think as long I have fun.I found that out when I went to the Dominican Republic for the first time in my life with my dear daughter.

  2. I miss being able to have fun or laugh or play at the most inappropriate times. Sometimes being a “grown-up” means that when you most need to loosen up, the time is the least “right”. If you have the good fortune of having thick-skinned parents as a child, those inappropriate moments are few and far between.
    Diana, your posts are great. They always give me food for thought. I had a few queued for future commenting but I think I have to give up becauseI won’t ever catch up.
    Thanks though! I’m always here savouring all the thoughts you share :-)

  3. Do you have this in your book of quotes (it’s in my top 25):

    Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
    Work like you don’t need the money,
    Love like you have never been hurt,
    And dance like no one is watching.

    (I’m still working on that last one.)

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